From The Mouths Of Babes: What They Want From Their Male Admirers
You probably have already been in several relationships and are quite confident about your dating and courting style. However, do you actually understand how to decipher women’s words and actions? Or, are you one of those thousands of men who always, and I mean ALWAYS, misread what a woman says?
No matter how much you claim to be knowledgeable about women, you can never really know her in and out 100%. Why? Because it is difficult to understand women completely. Period. It is as simple as that. They are a mix of hundreds of different kinds of feelings and can think about several ideas at a time. And when you ask her about it, she will answer you directly, cool, and composed. Thus, if she is being sweet towards you, maybe she is just that way by nature and nothing more. So stop imagining things and get on with the business of making her like you back.
If you are the type of guy who can stand on his own without having to depend on his man-friends, then congratulations. You have one of the qualities women like in men. Cry babies do not have a place in a woman’s field of vision, but if you have your own brain apart from how your friends’ think, then surely, the distance between you and the woman of your dreams become narrower.
How do you generally feel about the things happening around you? Do you harbor negative thoughts towards other people? Do you talk harshly about others? If so, you had better clean up your act because women do not like men who talk too much, especially those who nag and always see the bad in people instead of focusing on the goodness of individuals. If you want a girl to see you as a potential romantic partner, be gentle with your words and change the way you view things. Stay positive and you will attract positive things too.
Another thing that attracts women to men is sense of security. If a woman sees that a guy seems responsible when it comes to handling his life and finances, this adds points to the way a woman sees a guy. The perception greatly changes because men have already been type casted as “provider” when it comes to a relationship. Persevere, show how responsible you are, and soon women will come looking for you.
What about feelings? Do you own up to your emotions when you are feeling happy or sad? Or, do you only know one type of emotion, and that is, anger? Men have always been known to mask their emotions especially if it involves showing their vulnerable side. But there is nothing wrong about admitting that you also feel all those emotions that women feel. In fact, showing your sensitive side can even make her feel “motherly” towards you and that will further attract you to her.
I have more dating tips to share with you, but for now, I will leave you with these guidelines. My name is Carter Kane. For additional dating tips about how to get women to like you, come visit me at: http://www.attract-women.org. See you there!